You have to forgive. Well, actually you don’t have to but if you don’t forgive, you will be stuck where you are at, not getting through the challenges that are upon you. On top of this, you will allow the energy of others misbehavior and poor judgement affect you life in a way you don’t want them too.
Forgiveness is a challenging thing. It has been a challenging thing for myself, especially knowing that the individuals that care about me and love me, have not always been there the way they should be and have actually so often created more problems. Problems that affect you and have affected me.
But the reality is, you still need to forgive. I need to forgive and let go and realize that these judgements, these things have nothing to do with you. So You have to forgive, you have to let go.
Most of all, you have to forgive yourself and realize, that nothing is of any fault to yours or others and that you are stronger then you realize and exactly where you need to be.